“OK, Sassy… Pay attention. This is a fun game.
“Let’s say you already have a number of toys out to play with and three of them are tennis balls. They all look alike. We’ll use that to confuse mom and dad. And, this is another of those times when you can make them get up and move around a little. I mean… look at them… they NEED the exercise.
“Before you start, take one of the tennis balls and hide it in another room. Then, get their attention while running around looking at the other two balls and the rest of the toys… but act like you are in a panic. That will get them to notice your frustration. Go from one toy to another, flip them with your nose… roll each ball away from you and keep frantically searching. While all of this is going on, I’ll sit back and look totally disinterested.
“One of them… usually mom… will start asking you what you are looking for, tell you to bring her a ball, and make other comments trying to calm you down. When you don’t calm down, she’ll decide she has to help you find what you are looking for. When she gets up, start trotting alongside her… and while you do, look up at her as if asking if she is going to find it for you.
“A nice touch right about then is to have your mouth slightly open, your tongue hanging out a little and keep a smile on your face… Yeah, a smile! They really eat that up.
“Let her walk around, looking behind the couch, in the bedroom and kitchen, the hallway, bathrooms and everywhere else she can think of…while you keep that anxious look on your face.
“If she hands you another ball, check it over, then push it away… get the idea across that there is only one of those tennis balls that you want… and this one ain’t it! She will keep looking until she finds it…
“Once found, look real happy, play with the ball for a minute, flip it in the air, roll on it, etc.
“Mom will sit back down…
“Then, you can bring it to her so she can throw it and you can chase it. But… only do that once or twice, then put that ball down and go do something else… as if you have lost interest in the ball…
“It will drive her nuts! And you win the game!”